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CSC featured in Washington Times article: Teachers see AI evolving from nuisance to necessity at K-12 schools

May 7, 2025/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

Teachers see AI evolving from nuisance to necessity at K-12 schools

By Sean Salai – The Washington Times – Tuesday, May 6, 2025

Samantha Gleisten has made her share of mistakes teaching generative artificial intelligence to middle school students in Chicago.

When she first invited a group of eighth graders to create chatbots with a software program two years ago, one trained his AI to be a narcissist who gave antagonistic “I’m better than you” responses. Another created an AI Snoop Dogg who veered into inappropriate drug references in improvised rap lyrics.

She soon learned how to be quicker at reining students in — and choosier about selecting AI software with guardrails for children that she could tailor to the classroom.

“I wanted to show my students how to engage a new technology, but I didn’t stop to think what was appropriate,” said Ms. Gleisten, who directs education technology at Rogers Park Montessori School and co-founded the company AI Education last year. “Fortunately, it didn’t get scary, and now I know how to check the privacy policies and vet the tools I’m using.”

She’s one of thousands of K-12 teachers who have worked to transform AI chatbots from a nuisance into a necessity since ChatGPT took campuses by storm in late 2022.

Education insiders interviewed by The Washington Times said the evolution of AI in schools has unfolded in three stages: banning generative AI to prevent cheating, developing AI usage policies and requiring “strategic integration” of AI literacy instruction.

“Initially, there was panic, fear about cheating, misinformation, loss of jobs, but the conversation has matured,” said Gadi Kovler, CEO of Radius, an AI platform for teachers. “Students don’t need to study AI as a concept as much as they need to be flexible, critical thinkers who can adapt to rapidly evolving tools and workflows.”

Generative AI platforms like ChatGPT allow users who pose written or verbal questions to create new text, images and music from an ever-expanding database.

Most teachers initially resisted AI as a threat to traditional learning, then gradually embraced it.

Turnitin — a website teachers use to detect plagiarism in assignments — released an AI-detection tool in April 2023 that claimed to be 97% effective at flagging computer-generated writing in essays.

As more schools adopted AI for learning feedback, tutoring and group projects, Turnitin.com pivoted this year.

In March, the company announced the launch of Turnitin Clarity, a “composition workspace” to help students “draft writing assignments with transparency” and receive AI-generated feedback to improve their work.

The new program’s AI writing assistant uses a teacher’s assignment instructions to guide students in writing and editing a submission over multiple sessions. It includes a video playback feature that lets teachers review a student’s entire drafting process, including copied-and-pasted text and typing patterns.

“AI-generated writing is not a binary concept with rigid lines around what is or is not acceptable,” said Annie Chechitelli, Turnitin’s chief product officer. “Instead, this technology is a true disruption, requiring us to rethink many aspects of our world.”

While interactive chatbots can pass multiple-choice exams and create deepfake recordings of people’s voices, administrators stress the need to form thoughtful human users to produce deeper insights.

“AI apps allow learners to write, speak, perform and construct a lesson or problem from any location,” said Michael Liebmann, an assistant superintendent at the Matawan-Aberdeen Regional School District in New Jersey. “They cannot replace the relationships that are created between the teacher and the children in the room.”

Beyond essays, generative AI has helped students understand difficult math questions.

The homework-learning app Brainly launched “Ginny” — a ChatGPT-powered chatbot that helps students expand or simplify answers to complex math and science problems as a learning aid — in March 2023.

For example, Ginny can analyze a student’s answer to a difficult Calculus homework or study problem and offer a step-by-step explanation of the correct solution.

In a March 2025 study of 3,682 U.S. high school students, Brainly found that 67% planned to use AI to prepare for their final exams, up from 59% a year ago. Another 80.6% of respondents said AI could improve their grades, up from 77% in 2024.

“We’re realizing that one-size-fits-all AI chatbots aren’t capable of adapting to each student’s individual learning style, emphasizing the need for personalized learning companions,” said Bill Salak, Brainly’s chief technology officer. “It’s important that schools teach students to become strategic users of technology not just as consumers, but as smart, effective decision-makers.”

Rapidly multiplying AI platforms have threatened to overwhelm some campuses.

Heather Peske, president of the National Council on Teacher Quality, said schools still struggle to train teachers how to use AI with appropriate materials.

“There are a lot of ‘resources’ out there that teachers use to supplement their district-provided instructional materials and many of them are low quality,” Ms. Peske said. “Given the nature of AI models, chances are high that AI will draw from these poor materials and perpetuate low-quality instruction.”

Experts urge students to start with the simplest AI platforms and watch carefully for any “hallucinations” that they may produce with false information.

“I recommend sticking to one or two platforms like ChatGPT so that they can learn the ins and outs of that one before exploring the festival of other tools and apps that are springing up every day,” said Dan Ulin, a psychologist who founded the Los Angeles-based Elite Student Coach to help teenagers get into top colleges.

AI literacy

Policymakers on both sides of the aisle have called on K-12 schools to teach AI literacy over the past year.

California Gov. Gavin Newsom, a Democrat, signed a law in October that requires AI literacy instruction in the state’s K-12 classrooms.

President Trump signed an April 23 executive order directing the Education and Labor departments to prioritize funding and opportunities for high school students to take AI classes and certification programs.

“American schools took big steps towards a screen-based educational system during the COVID-19 pandemic,” said Yaron Litwin, chief financial officer of the AI-driven Canopy Parental Control app, which helps parents filter digital content. “Now, they are beginning to implement AI literacy initiatives on the federal, state and local levels.”

Tech industry employers argue that students with AI skills will have a better chance of landing future engineering, science and math-related jobs.

“Students require baseline AI literacy across all subjects, not just in computer science classes,” said Dev Nag, CEO of QueryPal, a San Francisco-based customer support automation company.

Mr. Nag pointed to national surveys showing that the share of teachers using AI jumped from 1 in 5 in early 2023 to more than 40% by the end of 2024. Over the same period, he noted that the share of teenagers using AI increased from 37% to 70%.

Sher Downing, CEO of Downing EdTech Consulting, said schools are moving to integrate AI in three areas from the earliest grade levels: a redesigned curriculum emphasizing human skills, new forms of testing that AI cannot easily replicate and programs ensuring AI access at all socioeconomic levels.

“Successful implementation hinges on using AI to augment rather than replace teaching, establishing clear ethical policies, and fostering teacher experimentation,” Ms. Downing said.

AI has also been effective in connecting emotionally and intellectually with special education students.

“It can help students with autism explore topics they love, ask creative questions, and engage in learning that’s personalized, meaningful and relevant,” said Katie Trowbridge, a Florida-based education consultant and former public high school teacher. “It can adapt content to fit their strengths, offer visuals or simplified language when needed, and even model social scenarios in low-pressure, safe ways that build confidence.”

Lingering concerns

According to education experts, a gradual curriculum of AI literacy from kindergarten through high school will best prepare students for future success.

Nevertheless, financial limitations and lingering concerns about academic dishonesty have kept AI out of many schools.

“When it comes to what to avoid with AI, I would caution against outright banning AI in the classroom,” said Caroline Allen, chief program officer at the right-leaning Center for Education Reform and a former teacher. “I would also advise against relying on AI-generated content without vetting it.”

Cyber safety experts say schools with digital literacy programs to integrate AI in all grades and classes have done better with disciplinary issues than campuses that relegate it to computer science classrooms.

“Rather than banning it altogether, teach students how to use this tool well,” said Allison J. Bonacci, director of education for Cyber Safety Consulting, an Illinois-based company that works with schools to develop internet safety policies. “Age-appropriate AI literacy can be integrated into all classes, not just tech classes.”

According to a 2024 UNESCO report, students’ critical thinking scores rose by 18% on average in schools that introduced AI with digital literacy programs. By contrast, they fell by 9% in schools that allowed AI without a digital literacy program to guide it.

“If students begin to treat AI like a shortcut for thinking, they may lose opportunities to build foundational cognitive skills,” said Marlee Strawn, co-founder of Scholar Education, a company that develops AI tools for K-12 classrooms.

Dana Bryson, senior vice president of social impact at the online learning platform Study.com, said another problem is that poor and minority communities have lagged in teaching AI.

She pointed to a recent Study.com survey that found 54% of teachers saw the promise of AI for individualized learning, but 64% worried it would contribute to “wider learning gaps.”

“Affluent communities and schools have more quickly embraced AI tools, while schools serving under-resourced households are often left out or even avoid them altogether,” Ms. Bryson said. “That tells us AI is neither inherently good nor bad. It’s a tool, and how we use it will determine whether it helps close gaps or deepen them.”

 

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Allison Bonacci featured in Washington Times article: Teen girls lead 60% surge in depression rates, CDC report finds

April 17, 2025/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

By Sean Salai – The Washington Times – Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Teenage girls led a 60% jump in the number of Americans reporting clinical depression symptoms from 2013 to 2023, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported Wednesday.

The CDC’s National Center for Health Statistics found the share of people ages 12 and older who reported clinical depression symptoms in a two-week period increased from 8.2% of those surveyed in 2013-14 to 13.1% between August 2021 and August 2023.

Among the depressed in 2021-23, the federal agency found that 39.3% received counseling or therapy from a mental health professional in the previous 12 months. That included 43% of female respondents and 33.2% of male participants in a public health survey.

Depression rates were highest among female respondents — 16% compared with 10.1% of male participants — and decreased as age increased. The prevalence of depression ranged from 19.2% of all adolescents ages 12-19 to just 8.7% of all adults 60 and older.

By comparison, an earlier CDC report showed that depression rates among Americans ages 20 and older did not change significantly from 2007-08 to 2015-16.

Debra Brody, a CDC epidemiologist and lead author of the report, said she could not explain the surge because the survey “is not designed to identify cause and effect relationships.”

“In addition, our study was not designed to assess underlying factors for trends in depression,” Ms. Brody told The Washington Times.

Several mental health experts not connected with the study blamed social media addiction for the trend.

They noted that the CDC surveys from 2013 to 2023 coincided with smartphone ownership becoming widespread among teens, who they said rely more than older adults on digital interaction for their self-worth.

“Social media is a major factor, especially for girls,” said Laura DeCook of the California-based company LDC Wellbeing, which leads mental health workshops for families. “It fosters insecurity, cyberbullying and pressure to perform. Girls are also more likely to internalize emotions, which shows up more in diagnoses like depression.”

Classic signs of depression include lack of energy, sleeplessness, self-hating thoughts and behavior, difficulty concentrating and completing tasks, frequent crying and persistent sadness.

According to psychologists, these symptoms have long been more common among young people. They say the best response is to accept the feelings rather than minimize them or tell teenagers to “cheer up.”

“Contrary to stereotype, older people have long had lower rates of depression than adolescents,” said Keith Humphreys, a Stanford University psychologist and addiction researcher. “The present findings are consistent with that pattern.”

In a second report on people ages 18 and older who responded to a separate public health survey in 2023, the CDC found women and people living alone were likelier than men and cohabiting adults to take prescription medications for depression.

The CDC said Wednesday that 15.3% of women reported taking antidepressants in 2023, more than twice the 7.4% of men who said the same.

The agency also noted that 14.4% of adults living alone in 2023 were medicated for depression compared with 10.9% of those living with others.

Since the pandemic, public officials have declared a youth mental health crisis linked to screen addiction and flagged an “epidemic of loneliness” driven by record numbers of Americans living alone.

Virginia Gov. Glenn Youngkin, a Republican, declared April 13-19 a Screen-Free Week for “Virginians of all ages” to take a break from smart devices and reconnect with “the world beyond the screen.”

“Protecting Virginia’s children and strengthening families is at the heart of everything we do,” Mr. Youngkin said Monday. “Virginia Screen-Free Week is a call to action — to hit pause on the noise of digital distractions and say yes to deeper connection, stronger mental health and a brighter future for our youth.”

In a statement to The Times, Virginia Health and Human Services Secretary Janet V. Kelly said the CDC findings echo a survey that showed depression rates increasing to 20% of her state’s teens in 2023, as roughly 78% spent over three hours a day on non-academic screen time.

“This tracks across multiple studies we have seen, including past reports from the CDC, that U.S teen girls are experiencing increased sadness and violence, that teen girls are more vulnerable to mental health risks related to online and social media exposure, and that suicide attempts in teen girls have increased, and rising rates of suicide in Black girls,” Ms. Kelly said.

Over the past two years, Virginia and several other states have banned cellphones from K-12 classrooms, noting that children increasingly use them for distractions rather than texting mom.

While boys often use digital screens to play video games that externalize their feelings, experts note that girls are more vulnerable to solitary doomscrolling on social media platforms.

Allison Bonacci, director of education for Cyber Safety Consulting, an Illinois-based company that works with schools to develop internet safety policies, said that leads to more girls neglecting sleep and exercise. 

“Girls are more likely to use image-based platforms like Instagram and TikTok, which can intensify appearance-related comparisons and body dissatisfaction,” Ms. Bonacci said. “They’re also more likely than boys to experience digital drama like exclusion and gossip online.”

Read more here: https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2025/apr/16/teen-girls-lead-60-surge-depression-rates-cdc-report-finds/

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Liz Repking featured in Catholic Register Article

September 20, 2024/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

Catholic Schools Ahead of the Curve When It Comes to Curbing Cellphones

Matthew McDonald

Always connected? The latest technology? Easy access to the web? Cellphones everywhere?

St. Alphonsus Parish School in Seattle has none of that. And it doesn’t want it.

“When I tell prospective parents we’re tech-minimal, people light up about that,” said Nick Padrnos, who just started his fourth year as the principal. “It’s refreshing to them. I think everyone knows it intuitively makes sense.”

What does “tech-minimal” mean?

For one thing, no cellphones. Teachers can use them during the day. But students can’t.

Padrnos told the Register that a survey this past spring at the school, which serves about 185 kids in preschool through eighth grade, found that 75% of the more than 100 parents who responded said they wish they would have waited longer than they did to give their kids a cellphone. The parents not only put up with the no-cellphones policy at school, Padrnos told the Register — they embrace it.

“We talk about it a lot in Catholic schools: Parents are the primary educators,” Padrnos said, referring to the Catechism of the Catholic Church (2223). “This movement, to me, is about empowering parents to reclaim that role.”

“Parents are just crying out for support,” he said. “I don’t think the Big Tech companies are going to give it to them. So that’s where we step in.”

Catholic schools across the U.S. like St. Alphonsus are ahead of the curve when it comes to implementing sensible policies aimed at keeping student distractions to a minimum. Nationally, exasperated teachers and parents are leading a charge to keep phones out of the classroom.

The California Legislature approved a bill Aug. 28 that requires public-school districts to adopt a policy by July 1, 2026, “to limit or prohibit the use by its pupils of smartphones” at school or school activities, including possible “enforcement mechanisms that limit access to smartphones.” The vote was almost unanimous in both chambers.

Florida, Louisiana and South Carolina have statewide restrictions in place. (Florida and South Carolina laws ban using a cellphone during class unless a teacher allows it; Louisiana law says a student can’t have a cellphone “on his person” during the school day.)

Ten other states either require (Indiana, Minnesota, Ohio, Virginia) or recommend (Alabama, Connecticut, Washington) that school districts have a policy limiting use of cellphones or provide incentives (Arkansas, Delaware, Pennsylvania) for local school districts to do so, according to EducationWeek.

 

43 Minutes a Day 

Cellphones are common among kids at schools across the United States.

In a 2023 report called “Constant Companion,” Common Sense Media cited studies finding that about half of children in the United States get a smartphone by age 11. About 43% of kids ages 8 to 12 have one. That figure rises to 88% and higher for adolescents ages 13 to 18.

Kids who participated in a Common Sense Media study received a median of 237 notifications on their smartphone on a typical day, of which they saw or engaged with about 46. During school hours, students’ median use of cellphones took up about 43 minutes a day.

Such numbers have some school officials thinking smartphones aren’t good for students at school.

Some Catholic school administrators also are skeptical about cellphones.

“Our Catholic schools do not allow cellphone usage during instructional time. Most schools do not allow them during the school day,” said Brian Disney, superintendent of schools for the Archdiocese of Indianapolis, by email.

Kevin Somok, principal of St. Jerome Academy, a Catholic parish school in Hyattsville, Maryland, that emphasizes classical education, told the Register that students there have to give up their cellphones at the beginning of the school day and can’t get them back while school is in session.

Somok is in his first year at St. Jerome, but he has had his own kids there as students for several years. He has also seen during his 19 years as a Catholic educator what cellphones do to social life in schools that allow them, even if only during non-class time such as lunch.

“Instead of talking to each other in the cafeteria, they’re looking at their phones. They’re missing out on positive interactions,” Somok said in a telephone interview.

Somok has five children. The oldest is 11. None has a cellphone.

“My 11-year-old, the way he interacts with his friends, it’s not on Instagram; it’s not on group chat. It’s a healthier childhood,” Somok said.

 

No Need for Change? 

Some Catholic-school systems don’t see a problem with cellphones in schools because they think they have them under control.

“Student cellphone usage during the school day is not a concern within the Catholic schools of the Archdiocese of Baltimore,” a spokesman for the school system there told the Register by email. “Each school has established its own cellphone policy for students, tailored to meet the needs of their individual community, with best practices in place.”

Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of Kansas City, Kansas, have some leeway in how they deal with cellphones, but most don’t allow students to use them most of the time.

“I don’t think we have a need to ban them, because we pretty much have in place a requirement to keep them in the backpacks or lockers and not to be used during school,” said Vince Cascone, superintendent of schools for the Archdiocese of Kansas City. “We just need to make sure that that time in school is sacred and focused on learning, and we try to eliminate any distraction that a cellphone might bring.”

It’s a similar situation in the Archdiocese of Las Vegas.

“I don’t see them as a problem. I think the expectation is set: Students know when and where they can take their cellphones out,” said Catherine Thompson, superintendent of schools for the Archdiocese of Las Vegas. “We don’t want it to be a distraction, but we know that it’s part of the fabric of our lives.”

 

The Book on Smartphones 

But some Catholic schools are rethinking their approach.

Most Catholic schools in the Archdiocese of San Antonio “restrict access and use of cellphones throughout the day, except for lunch and breaks,” Jordan McMurrough, a communications director for the archdiocese, told the Register.

But archdiocesan officials are thinking about doing more. This summer, Catholic school principals and pastors of parishes with Catholic schools were asked to read a book that came out earlier this year that recommends against allowing children to have smartphones, “and there is a move on campuses toward the direction of an even more phone-free environment, working in close consultation and discussions with administrators and families,” McMurrough said by email.

That book, The Anxious Generation:  How The Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness, by social psychologist Jonathan Haidt, argues that the transition from a “play-based childhood’ to a “phone-based childhood” during the past couple of decades has led to sharp increases in anxiety, depression, sleep deprivation, social deprivation, attention fragmentation, addiction and self-harm.

Haidt, whose arguments have been challenged by some, calls for no smartphones before high school, no social media before age 16, and no cellphones capable of receiving text messages available to kids in school during the school day.

“Let’s get kids through the most vulnerable period of brain development before connecting them to a firehose of social comparison and algorithmically chosen influencers,” Haidt writes in the book.

 

Distraction? 

Cellphone restrictions get mixed reviews.

At St. Alphonsus School in Seattle, two eighth-graders told the Register they don’t mind the policy.

Callum MacLeod, 13, has had an iPhone 10 for more than a year, and he has friends at other schools who use their cellphones at school to listen to music and read text messages. But he said he prefers being without one at school.

“I never feel the urge to want my phone during school time. I don’t think about my phone during class. I just focus on my schoolwork,” he said.

Emma Noble, 13, has an Android cellphone with no access to the internet, which she got about a month ago. But she, too, said she doesn’t mind the school’s policy preventing her from having access to it during the school day.

“I like it because it really makes sure you get your mind on your schoolwork instead of, ‘Oh, what are my friends texting about? What are these people doing right now?’” she said.

But some find such restrictions concerning.

Matthew Haas has had five children go through Cardinal O’Hara High School in Springfield, Pennsylvania. Only the youngest, a 16-year-old junior, has to deal with the school’s new policy requiring students to keep their cellphones in their lockers while classes are going on.

Haas told the Register he understands the need to limit use of cellphones during the school day. But like his daughter, he said, he’d prefer that she have immediate access to her phone in the event of an emergency, particularly if she doesn’t have time to get to her locker.

“I am all for no phones active during classes,” Haas said in a telephone interview. “But some of the more restrictive ones like that, where you can’t have it in your bookbag, that’s tough for me.”

Even so, restricting cellphones seems to be a trend.

Jesuit Father John Belmonte, superintendent of Catholic education in the Diocese of Venice, Florida, told the Register that he recently proposed to principals there “a diocesan-wide ban on cellphones at our diocesan schools.”

Liz Repking, chief executive officer of Cyber Safety Consulting, who advises schools and parents about cellphones and related technology, said she is hoping to start a pilot program at two or three schools in the diocese starting in January 2025 in which students would be required to put their cellphones in a lockable fabric pouch at the beginning of the school day, which would be unlocked for them at the end of the day.

“It completely unplugs the kids for six to seven hours a day, which is a wonderful thing,” Repking said.

She said pushback to similar policies tends to come from parents who are worried about not being able to contact their children quickly if after-school plans change or in an emergency.

“We’re really accustomed in society to immediately having access to whoever we want, whenever we want. And they want that access to their kids,” Repking said. “Parents, they just want to have that level of control. We have to recognize the parents’ concerns and address them.”

Addressing those concerns, she said, could include setting up a system in which students can get a message at school within an hour or so, either by telephone through the central office or through a dedicated email station. As for emergencies, by which many parents mean active-shooter situations, she points out to clients that training for lockdowns in schools includes no talking and no noise, with teachers giving kids instructions by hand signals, and that a cellphone might be a hindrance in such a situation rather than a help.

A more constant negative factor, she said, is distraction.

The most obvious distraction is during class, if a student is paying attention to a cellphone rather than to a teacher.

But another kind of distraction comes from the constant urge to check other kids’ social-media postings throughout the day. Eliminating access to cellphones eliminates that problem, Repking said.

“It’s just kind of a very level playing field: No one’s on their phones; no one’s posting anything on social media,” she said. “You’re not missing anything.”

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Liz Repking featured in Washington Times article: Officials increasingly ban students’ cellphones in K-12 schools, reversing trend

July 22, 2024/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci
The Washington Times – Tuesday, July 16, 2024, by Sean Salai

Worried parents have been keen to send their children to school with cellphones ever since the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks and mass shootings ushered in the new millennium. Now, public officials complain that students are using smartphones more for cyberbullying, video games and pornography than for talking or texting with Mom.

New York Gov. Kathy Hochul, a Democrat, has become the latest public official to crack down on what she considers to be digital distractions from learning. Kicking off a statewide “listening tour,” she promised this month to introduce a bill to ban smartphones in schools.

“The status quo is not working for our children in particular,” Ms. Hochul said during an appearance at Guilderland High School, a short drive from the state Capitol in Albany. “And I want to make sure we continue to incorporate community feedback.”

Liz Repking of Cyber Safety Consulting, an Illinois-based company that works with schools to develop internet safety policies, said she sees no legitimate reason for K-8 students to have smartphones at school and little cause for high school students to have the devices.

“My experience in the past school year is that the disruption to learning in the classroom is becoming insurmountable, especially for the most dedicated teachers,” Ms. Repking said.

She endorsed a growing school trend of locking personal phones in pouches that can be accessed only before school, after dismissal or in emergencies requiring parental contact.

“Without question, the most effective approach is a complete ban on phones from entry to exit to the school,” Ms. Repking said. “This also means that students will not have access during passing periods, lunch and recess.”

Public and private schools nationwide started distributing digital tablets and laptops to students in the late 2000s, and many allowed personal phones in classes for educational purposes such as video projects. The trend peaked from 2020 to 2022 as schools switched to hybrid and virtual learning with livestream classes during pandemic lockdowns.

Over the past year, several states and large urban school districts have abruptly reversed course. They cited a surge of student anxiety, depression and misbehavior, including drug dealing and posting embarrassing videos of teachers online. Test scores have declined, they said, and faculty are too overwhelmed to police cellphone use.

Most schools still allow approved tablets or laptops for some lessons, especially in math and sciences.

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New Podcast Episode!

July 13, 2024/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

Liz was recently featured on the Safety Is Sexy podcast discussing how to help young people get safe and savvy online. “Thanks for the opportunity to express our thoughts on ‘Sexy Online Safety” 😊 (Don’t worry – the podcast is rated G!)”, says Liz. Listen and learn all about a myriad of topics from what Cyber Safety Consulting is seeing in school to tips for the summer to avoid fights at home over screen time and how to support young people in building healthy digital habits.

 

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What parents should know about iPhone’s ‘NameDrop’ feature – CSC on Good Morning America

November 28, 2023/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

In this Good Morning America article, Liz Repking shares her thoughts on the iPhone’s new ‘Name Drop’ feature.

https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/family/story/parents-iphones-namedrop-feature-105179773

By: Yi-Jin Yu, November 28, 2023, 7:16 am

In some recent social media posts about a new Apple iOS feature, several police departments have expressed concern about the new “NameDrop” feature potentially putting children at risk if it were to be misused.

But some tech experts say the technology is safe when used as intended and that the warnings in some cases are exaggerated.

According to Apple, the NameDrop option lets iPhone and Apple Watch users who are next to each other share contact information such as a name, photo, phone number or email address quickly and easily with just a few taps.

The feature, announced in June, is currently available on Apple’s iOS 17.1 and watchOS 10.1 software, and is part of the software’s existing AirDrop feature.

Concerns first arose after the Watertown Police Department in Connecticut shared a Facebook post Sunday that claimed Apple’s NameDrop feature is “enabled by default” after a user updates their iPhone to the latest operating system. The post inaccurately claimed that with the feature enabled, “anyone” could place their phone near another person’s phone and “automatically receive their contact information” and picture “with a tap of your unlocked screen.”

In Pennsylvania, the Jefferson Hills Police Department on Sunday also shared a Facebook post with a similar note, specifically addressing parents, encouraging them to “change these settings after the update on your children’s phones.”

Despite those warnings, Liz Repking, the owner and founder of Cyber Safety Consulting, told “Good Morning America” that parents do not have to be overly alarmed about kids’ safety surrounding the use of NameDrop.

“I wouldn’t say they should be hyper concerned about NameDrop more so than any other feature that their kids are exposed to when they use the devices,” Repking said. “The way the police postings read was that if you put two phones close together, you can have your personal information taken from your device, but there’s actually a screen that pops up that asks for approval to transfer that information.”

Repking suggested the NameDrop feature might serve as a reminder for parents to talk to their children about digital safety and safeguarding private information, especially from a young age.

“Show them where it’s at, tell them that you want to turn it off [if you decide that], but then what it does is it gives a parent another platform to talk about why it’s important to protect that information,” Repking said. “If you say like, ‘Hey, here’s a feature in the app or the device. Let’s talk about it.’ You’re not coming at kids like, ‘Hey, are you sharing your personal information?’ [which can make] kids really defensive.”

Watertown Deputy Police Chief Renee Dominguez, meanwhile, told “GMA” this week that her department’s decision to share the post, which also included instructions on how to disable the iPhone feature and change settings, was more about taking a proactive approach to try to educate and raise awareness of a newer phone feature, as they have done previously when sharing information about phone scams or incidents that arise from the use of new technology.

“We just want people to be aware and choose to set up your child’s phone, your own phone, the way that you feel that suits your needs and as much privacy as you want to keep on your phone and restriction of access,” Dominguez said. “We will go to some of these workshops that we do for parents, and parents really have no idea that their kids have all these abilities on their phone.”

However, Dominguez added, “There has been no negative activity with [NameDrop] that [has] been reported to the police department, or even in our surrounding area that we’ve been made aware of.”Apple declined to comment to “GMA” about the NameDrop feature.

The company explains on its website, however, that if users wish, they can select who they want to share any contact information with and when — and it can only be done when devices are within centimeters of each other, when devices are unlocked, and when a user follows the prompts to complete a NameDrop process.

The NameDrop function can be disabled by going to an iPhone’s Settings app, selecting the General tab, then the AirDrop tab, and then toggling the “Bringing Devices Together” option off.

If a NameDrop process is started, it will also automatically cancel if one of the iPhones or Apple Watches is moved away from the second device, or if an iPhone is locked before the NameDrop process is completed.

 

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What is sextortion? One mom is warning parents after son’s death – CSC on The TODAY Show

November 6, 2022/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

What is sextortion? One mom is warning parents after son’s death

“Make sure you talk to your kids about online cyber crimes,” the grieving mom wrote on Facebook
Nov. 4, 2022, 3:33 PM EDT
By Danielle Campoamor

This article addresses the issue of suicide. If you or someone you know needs help, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or dial 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

Braden Markus, 15, had what his mother said was an “amazing weekend of football” on Saturday, Oct. 21, 2021. To celebrate, the Ohio teen ordered his favorite food, then “spent the rest of the night doing homework, playing Xbox with his cousins and sleeping,” his mom wrote in a Facebook post.

“Typical life of a teenager,” Jennifer Argiro-Markus, Braden’s mom, added.

Less than 24 hours later, Braden died by suicide. His family believes he was a victim of cyber “sextortion.” Local authorities have opened a criminal investigation into the case.

‘I am only 15, why are you doing this to me?’

At 11:01 a.m. the next morning, after Braden started working on his driver’s education test and more school work, his mom said a “cyber bully friended” him on Instagram, “posing as a high school girl.”

After five minutes of messaging back and forth, Argiro-Markus wrote that the person asked Braden to “message using Google Hangout.” Braden agreed, but the person he was chatting with was not who they claimed to be.

“Things went south within 30 minutes,” his mom wrote on Facebook.

The online predator sent her son pictures, continuing to claim to be the girl in the photographs. The person then spent the next five minutes “hounding” Braden to send a picture, who his mom wrote repeatedly said no, citing his age.

The Monster knew exactly what to say and what to post to get into a 15-year-old’s brain

“The hacker kept the pressure up,” Braden’s mom wrote. “If B got off the account, the hacker would hound him on his Instagram messenger. Eventually, B caved and sent a picture. The Monster knew exactly what to say and what to post to get into a 15-year-old’s brain.”

Once the hacker had a picture of Braden, Argiro-Markus said her son was threatened and told to pay the predator $1,800 or “else the monster” was going to release it among other pictures the hacker took from Braden’s Instagram account.

“The messages go on and on for 27 minutes,” she wrote. “The last five minutes of B’s life, he said over and over again, ‘I am only 15, why are you doing this to me? I am only 15, you will ruin my life.’ It is a thread that in a way I wish I never read, but here we are.” (In her post, Argiro-Markus explained she had to wait 10 months to get a court order to have Apple unlock her son’s phone so she could see what happened.)

At 11:28 a.m., Braden died by suicide.

“He was the kid that was literally loved by everyone, family, friends, teachers you name it,” Argiro-Markus told TODAY Parents. “His smile lit up a room wherever he went. He enjoyed sports, Xbox with his cousins and pranks with his buddies.”

Now, Argiro-Markus is warning parents of the dangers of online sexploitation and honoring her son’s memory with the Braden Markus Memorial Scholarship Fund.

“Make sure you talk to your kids about online cyber crimes. Make sure you tell them over and over that when they make a mistake to come to you, nothing is worth their lives,” the mom wrote on Facebook. “We can’t help our kids if we don’t speak up, and warn them, and try to stop these predators, and you can’t warn them unless you know about it.”

What is online or cyber sextortion?

“Sextortion is a term that is being used in recent years to describe a type of extortion in which a predator will use a sexually explicit image or video of another person in order to either engage with them in a sexual or exploitive relationship online or offline, or to exploit money from their victims,” Donna Hughes, president and CEO of Enough is Enough, a non-profit organization dedicated to preventing the internet-enabled exploitation of children, told TODAY.

“Really, it’s a form of online blackmail,” she added.

Since 2016, the CyberTipline has received 262,573 reports of online enticement, including acts of sextortion, according to a report from the National Center for Missing or Exploited Children.

Between 2019 and 2021, the number of reports involving sextortion more than doubled, according to the same report.

“It can happen to anyone at any time,” Hughes explained. “Kids are getting really drawn into these traps by people who either want to sexually exploit them or get money from them.”

How online predators groom their victims

Hughes said that online forums that allow people to sign up and use platforms anonymous have made it easier for predators to pose as seemingly harmless individuals while also making it easier for them to tailor their online personality to the likes and desires of their victims.

Braden Markus
Jennifer Argiro-Markus said her son, Braden, had a smile that “lit up a room wherever he went.”Courtesy Jennifer Argiro-Markus

“They’re going to get a child to trust them by appealing to the child’s interest,” Hughes explained. “I once interviewed a sexual predator and convicted sex offender for three hours in a high security prison in Virginia. I asked him, ‘How did you get kids to trust you?’ He told me: ‘I would be whoever they wanted me to be.'”

Liz Repking, founder and senior cyber safety expert at Cyber Safety Counseling, an internet safety consulting and education company, said once a predator earns a child’s trust they can begin to build and establish a relationship.

“Once there’s emotions involved, the decision making of the teenager just goes out the window,” Repking told TODAY. “What’s interesting is that it plays on very normal human dynamics — when our emotions get involved we make poor decisions. That’s what predators play on.”

I asked him, ‘How did you get kids to trust you?’ He told me: ‘I would be whoever they wanted me to be.’

A reported 4 in 10 minors said they have been approached online by someone they believe was attempting “to befriend and manipulate” them, according to one April 2022 online grooming report from Thorn, an international anti-human trafficking organization, and in partnership with Benenson Strategy Group, a market research firm.

When a predator is at the point where they believe they can ask for an image and receive one, they are now in a position of power.

“They play heavily on two emotions that are so hard to manage, which are shame and fear,” she added. “Once that child gives up that picture and realizes they’ve been duped, there’s the shame of sending a naked picture and the fear of how it will impact them — i.e., my parents are going to kill me; this could hurt my life forever; all of that. The shame and the fear create confusion, the kids don’t know what to do and they take their lives.”

How parents can protect their teens from sextortion

While there are a number of parental controls and other software that can help parents protect and monitor their children’s online behavior, Repking cautions parents not to solely rely on those guardrails.

“I tell parents it’s not a tech issue, it’s a parenting issue. And you cannot outsource parenting to software,” Repking added. “You can use software if you need to to help you parent, but the risk to putting a bunch of controls on is that you, as a parent, back off.”

I tell parents it’s not a tech issue, it’s a parenting issue. And you cannot outsource parenting to software.

In addition to utilizing certain parental controls, both Repking and Hughes encourage parents to be honest with their children — in age-appropriate ways — about the dangers of the internet, as well as deepen their own knowledge about the devices and online platforms their children are using.

“If I had a teenage son right now, I would be printing out these articles about these young boys and showing them to my child,” Repking said. “Teenagers tend to discount their parents — that we’re fear mongrels and that ‘we don’t really get it.’ I often advise parents use objective third party information, like articles, where you can start a dialogue.”

Hughes added that if a parent does not feel as if their child is old enough to have those conversations, “then, parent, they’re not old enough for a device.”

Online Predator Warning Signs

  • Your child becomes secretive about their online activities.
  • Your child receives phone calls, mail, gifts or packages from people you don’t know.
  • Your child spends more and more time online and/or panics when they can’t be online.
  • Your child withdrawals from family and friends.
  • Your child begins to hide or quickly turn off devices when others are in the room.

In addition to arming children with age-appropriate information and looking for warning signs, Repking said parents need to let their children know that there is always an “exit strategy” should they end up sharing explicit pictures or videos online.

“That’s the most important thing — letting your child know you won’t be mad; their lives won’t be ruined; you’ll be there to help them,” she said. “Yes, it gives them an out and ensures their safety, but emotionally it’s a powerful way of saying: ‘I’m here. I care, and I’m here for you. I’m supporting you. I love you, and I will always keep you safe.'”

Lastly, Hughes encourages every parent to realize this can happen to any child at any time. “No child is immune from online sexual exploitation,” she said. “Even yours.”

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Online dangers are rampant for kids today – CSC on Fox News

August 28, 2022/in Company News /by Allison Bonacci

One of the most important jobs parents have today is keeping their children safe online.

As moms and dads prepare to send their kids back to school soon, one critical item needs to be included on the checklist: checking out all online platforms their kids are using — and starting conversations early about cyber safety.

Kids and teens between the ages of 8-28 spend about 44.5 hours each week in front of digital screens, according to the nonprofit Center for Parenting Education.

This makes it crystal clear that parents need to be tuned in and very educated about what, exactly, their kids are doing during those hours.

Liz Repking, founder of Cyber Safety Consulting in Chicago, Illinois, started her company about 13 years ago. Her mission is to help parents protect their kids online; she now offers programs for kids, too.

Parents need to take the time to sit down and learn as much as they can about the different platforms their kids are active on, Repking told Fox News Digital in a recent phone interview.

As kids head back to the classroom, a parent’s back-to-school checklist should include learning what platforms their kids are using — and starting healthy dialogues about cyber hygiene.  (iStock)

“Most parents want a piece of software that will make this problem go away — but you cannot outsource parenting,” she said.

“Parents tend to think of all of these problems [with online predators] as technology problems — but these are actually parenting issues that involve technology.”

There are predators that “spend a lot of hours” attempting to groom children, warned Repking.

“These are actually parenting issues that involve technology.” 

“It’s part of our human nature to want to not address things that make us uncomfortable,” she said.

Yet she called discussions and precautions to keep kids safe online “critical.”

Repking stressed that any child online is “really vulnerable.”

A young teenager checks his Facebook page in this image. (AP Photo/Nam Y. Huh)

Repking shared that her own college-age daughter, a “perfectionist who did everything right,” was — as a child — tricked into conversation online with a 40-year-old predator.

The individual “posed as an 11-year-old girl who played soccer,” she said.

Kids “tend to believe what someone tells them,” Repking said.

It all starts when a child meets someone online, whether it’s through a gaming platform or a social media platform — or on a communication app such as Google Hangout, explained Repking (cybersafetyconsulting.com).

All platforms allow direct messaging (DMs), said Liz Repking. Parents need to be aware of the dangers for their kids. (Getty Images)

“It’s so easy to play on normal human nature of wanting to make friends, especially coming out of two years of a lot of isolation,” Repking said, referencing the COVID-19 lockdowns.

“This summer we’ve seen a great increase in what we call ‘sextortion,’ where young people are being targeted on gaming platforms, a relationship is built, and then the predator somehow asks for a picture of the child.”

Parents should always be asking, “Are there safety settings within that platform to protect my child?”

“It’s so easy to play on normal human nature of wanting to make friends, especially coming out of two years of a lot of isolation.”

Repking offered a key piece of information for parents: All platforms that allow direct messaging regardless of the friendship status are “really dangerous.” Why? Because a predator can contact a child through DMs (direct messaging).

“A lot of parents don’t even know that direct messaging is part of every social media app,” said Repking.

The problem with relying on settings and software to keep a child safe, said Repking, is that every single one of them “has a workaround.”

As soon as children figure out the workaround, they are “really, really vulnerable,” she added. “Now you have a parent that hasn’t educated the child on how to protect themselves and is not really paying attention — because they have confidence in the software.”

Parents need to be engaged and educated about what their children are doing online — and stay connected to how their activities evolve over time. (iStock)

Start safety conversations early, advised Repking.

“It’s much easier to establish dialogue with the third- or fourth-grader than it is with a freshman in high school,” she said.

An open dialogue should always be non-threatening; “Kids feel really threatened around their technology,” she said.

“As parents,” she said, “we can work through the tone of our voice, body language and how we approach the topic, and make kids feel like we’re not constantly accusing them of doing something wrong when it comes to technology.”

“Children learn bad habits at elementary-school age. By the time kids reach high school, they’ve already formed their habits.”

Another good tool is the use of stories, said Repking.

She said she tells kids about her own daughter’s experience, and even several years later a child will remember her story.

“We all find stories interesting, but also it’s very easy for kids to engage in a dialogue when it’s about a third party, whether they know the third party or not.” She added, “There’s something in storytelling — it holds attention, and it’s relatable.”

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Managing Kids and Technology Over Summer – CSC on The Morning Blend Milwaukee

July 23, 2019/in Blog, Company News /by Liz Repking

Cyber Safety Consulting’s Liz Repking appeared on Milwaukee’s Morning Blend to talk about the balance between unstructured summer break time and the use of technology. See the segment here: Managing kids and tech over summer. Here are some suggestions offered to ease the pain and confrontation around kids’ increased screen time:

  • Reset the limits and boundaries around tech use. This is a good time to bring out that tech contract or even work with your child to create one for the summer. Talk about time limits, down time, apps, and of course, the appropriate use of tech.
  • Encourage your child to use technology in more productive ways than just scrolling through Instagram posts. Create a blog on a topic that they are interested in or create a website for fun. My daughter created a website for baking gluten and dairy free desserts. She loves baking and this combines her interests and the use of technology in constructive ways. Check out her site here.
  • Have your child make a list of non tech things he or she enjoys doing…reading, going to the pool, riding a bike. Sometimes the mere act of reminding ourselves what we enjoy not involving a screen can motivate us to put the device down and engage in some long, lost, fun activities. I once heard my son say, after the encouragement to find a non tech activity, “I forgot how much I like to read!”
  • Use technology with your child. Find a game that you can play together or create a summer bucket list of things to do and research it online.
  • See a movie or read a book together that centers around issues kids are dealing with online. Here is a long list of Young Adult books: Internet novels.
  • And like always, be involved and stay current on trends, news, apps, games and websites. Check out this article on Instagram’s new antibullying efforts.

Most importantly, find some non tech time this summer to spend as a family. It could be as simple as going for a walk together and talking or picking a day a week to go ‘tech free’ for the entire family. Decide together how to use non tech time and talk about it.

We hope you enjoy your summer!

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How to Limit Screen Time for Your Kids – CSC on The Morning Blend

February 16, 2018/in Company News /by repking

CSC’s Liz Repking appears on The Morning Blend in Milwaukee talking about the best ways to limit your kids’ screen time.  She gives excellent tips and addresses the common parenting questions:

  • How much screen time should I allow my child spend online any day?
  • Where should I allow them to use their devices?
  • Are there apps that are good that I should encourage them to use?

Liz also talks about modeling your behavior with your children and also giving your child a ‘voice’ in these decisions resulting in better buy in.

Watch the video at the WTMJ 4 website below:

How to Limit Screen Time for Your Kids

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